It’s almost the season, and wedding bells are streaming all over the marriage-gardens near you. Under the disguise of a guest, one always imagine thyself as the groom, the star for one night. But marriage isn’t a cakewalk, and most importantly even you don’t know if you’re ready to take the shot. Its a lifelong commitment and should be dealt with full consciousness rather than some social or family pressure.
“Marriage is a lifestyle choice, not a requirement.”Here are some ways you can know that you’re ready for marriage — not just a wedding.
1. YOU’RE DONE WITH SINGLEDOM
Enough of the dates and throwing sakht launda tantrums, it was fun then, but it no longer excites you. Some are single by circumstances and some by choice. But there’ll come a time when you aspire to have someone beside you, someone to cure your Single-Status-Syndrome.
2. YOU’VE REACHED A CHECKPOINT
You may have just completed a big project or received that major promotion at work that you’re aiming for. Maybe the savings are piling up and it’s a well-set situation to tie the knot. You’re making a statement to handle the responsibilities and support your family.
3. YOU’RE READY TO MAKE SPACE
Marriage calls for two persons to embrace each other. It’s when your personal space gets compromised, and you need to make room for both as a whole. You should be prompt to handle those scenarios and firm to resolve the issues.
4. YOU’RE ADDRESSING YOUR EMOTIONS
You’re not carrying any emotional baggage from your past relationships. Addressing the present and anticipating for the coming future is precisely what needs to be done here. You’re just on the mark for a new beginning.
5. YOU’RE CONFIDENT ABOUT IT
You’re sure that you’ve accomplished all your desired goals (like solo trips, spending time with family, bachelor extravaganza, etc.) and lived life to the best. There’s no such pre-marriage regrets and its the perfect time to take the plunge.
The world is full of attractions, and you need to eliminate the distractions. Guess the sign, Climb the vine and enjoy the rhyme. A happy marriage life awaits you !!