We all remember the initial days of our relationship when we couldn’t keep our hands off of our partner. The sex was maddening and all you could think was the next time you’d get to feel their touch on you. Or maybe, you and your partner have a great emotional connection. But once you’ve bonded, you realise you’re sexually incompatible.

You find yourself not craving sexual intimacy so often. It can leave you two frustrated thus, making you question yourself. You can correct this by listening to the following advice.

Communicate

No relationship can work without effective communication. There is no point in staying in a relationship where you cannot present your views to your partner with ease. Sit down and explain to them how your “No” to their approach hasn’t got anything to do with them. It isn’t a personal attack but merely a difference in your sexual drives.

Compromise

It isn’t rocket science to be aware of the fact that no healthy relationship can exist without the two individuals compromising for the happiness of their partner. In this case, schedule your sex-dates and as your brain anticipates the arrival of it, it also prepares you sexually. If your partner wants to have sex 365 days a year, and you only 60 or even less, then schedule a sex-date appointment twice a week.

There are two sides to this particular coin – the increase in love-making makes you crave more of it or it does the exact opposite. If you don’t find yourself wanting more of your partner, then it’s time for your partner to compromise.

Consult

You need to consult a health care professional if you find yourself gradually shifting towards no sex. It is to make sure that nothing is physically wrong with you or your partner. And if that is not the case, then you need to go to couples or sex therapist.

Don’t freak out if you cannot cope up with your partner’s libido. It is very natural for couples to differ vastly in the real world. We aren’t living in a movie.

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