Do you want to try something new with your straight partner? Or are you starting to get serious in your gay relationship? Anal sex is very much different from normal vaginal sex. We have to consider many things before jumping straight to penetration an anus with a penis!

1. Talk About It

You have to talk it through with your partner before doing it. You can’t just announce that you want to put your tool in the other hole in the middle of a lovemaking session. Your partner has to prepare themselves before having anal sex. Since it is different from your normal sex, you have to talk thoroughly about it before and after doing it. It might be awkward for you and your partner to talk about it but things go much smoother when both the partners have good communication.

2. Don’t Rush! The Night Is Young

Rushing is never helpful. In this case, things may turn all nasty if you rush it. You need to keep in mind that although you are doing it to have fun, that hole is not meant to be penetrated. Nevertheless, when you are all set to take the step, you have to start slow. The anal muscles are not used to penetration and might take some time to relax. Start with small steps and gradually go in deeper. When things are under control and safe circumstance, you can start with the fun part.

3. You Need To Use Lube, Lot’s of Lube

Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t produce its own lube. There will be no bodily fluids present there to help you with the motion. So, you’ll have to bring your own lube. Use the common lube you’ve been using till now. It may be silicone-based, oil-based or water-based, the choice is yours to make. But trying it without lube is not at all advisable.

4. The Myth About Anal Sex

Okay, you have surely heard about incidents where people encounter poop while having anal sex. Well, poop is not actually stored in the region where anal sex takes place. It is stored in the upper bowels and not between the anus and the rectum where sex takes place. There might be occasions where some amount of the faecal matter might be present in the region because of abnormal bowel movements, but that’s not the case every time. Remember the first tip? Well, this is why you need to talk it out before having anal sex. You guys have to deal with the situation of encountering poop in the middle of your adventure by yourself.

5. Safety Must Be A Priority

You are doing it to have fun, true. But that doesn’t allow you to risk the safety of you and your partner. Use condoms to prevent unwanted STDs and infections.

It is not a must act. That is, no one is forcing to try anal sex. It’s okay if you and your partner don’t want to have anal sex.

If you are interested in getting some toys to pleasure yourself, here are some sex toys for men you didn’t about.